Typical marriage ceremony in Tharu ethnic culture, as shown in the picture bride and groom making several culture procedures on the stage. Flower wreaths wearing each other, 5 unmarried girls from bride side standing in the side of bride and groom to protect, for perfuming as well as worshiping the bride and groom. From male side several people of his relation people came with bands with DJ and unite before entering female village/hometown. If they arrive near by female house , they started dance with bands and DJ , the groom sit on car with decoration while arrived in front of bride house (which was decorated) , there is several procedures started by now and finished in one day.
Marriage procedures : 3 days of celebration
1.Worshiping (Katha) , 1st day
2.Matkor, 2nd day
3.Marriage day
1.Processes in the worshiping day:
It is 1st day of marriage ceremony, relational peoples are arrived (who are invited to the marriage ceremony). It is started by worshiping Hinduism ways, as Tharu are Hindu. They are worshiping gods, sometimes they play Basaha (Tharu cultural program).
2.Processes in the Matkor, 2nd day:
The 2nd day of marriage ceremony, people of both sides they went to every houses of his/her village which is called Bilauki. And then they went to near by temple and then goes to the mango tree for the next marriage ceremonial worshiping. In the night time of same day, they celebrate Haldi procedures, in which elders come to overlap turmeric pest to his/her body with oil. And they are dance with music.
3.Marriage day:
As described above, from male side every invited as well as his villagers unite and come to bride house with bands and DJ along with dancing and till they arrived to bride house. Now, the 1st step while arrived to the bride house, the elder of bride side worship the groom (The male who come to marriage), now groom come down from decorated Car. Then after the next step is ribbon cutting which is holding unmarried girls of bride side and ask for money to proceed. They after finishing this, the Groom now come to Stage. Now, every people who come with groom sit in front of stage. 5 girls (younger sisters of bride) come to the stage with bride. Bride and groom worship each other with flower wreath then from male side, he wear the golden ring to the bride finger. Now, Bride Face watching ceremony started, people from groom (male side) come and see the bride face and give some worthy things (money, gold, silver).
Maro(from bride side, it is made in the Matkor day, small house for the marriage celebration).
The groom brought to the Maro, and started several procedures, like shoes stolen by bride sisters and asking for money. In this way, marriage goes on and at last the Dowery brought along with bride to the groom house.
At last, the next day of marriage, Preeti vhoj started and ending marriage ceremony.