RELATIONSHIP
People getting to relate their circumstances, happiness, surrow, protection, immotinal etc are enclosed in relationship. Blood relationship in Nepal is closest ever, in comperison to other relationship. They will fight for their child, wife, mother, father, sister, and occasionally friends. But when we are in another country, just alone of my family. In that condition, only classmates, teachers are in relationship. So, someone who is totaly depending upon family, is hard to live in foreign country. But still, being human, they will gradually adapted that condition.
Some FAQ about relationship:
1) I 22/f feel like I'm putting my mother before husband and child and it's ruining my family:
So my momy is retired and doesn't work, however she receives disability and watches my daughter for 6 hours 5 days a week.
But I feel like she's killing my own homelife. Instead of being home with our child, I have to run my mom for her errands. And then she remembers that she forgot some insignificant item and wants me to come back. My so is getting frustrated and feels like I 'm putting her before us.
I feel guilty, because she's our baby sitter and everything, but at the same time I feel frustrated that she'll suddenly ask to go to the store and if I tell her I'm cleaning want to be at home, she always seems to get passive agressive. I just don't know how to make everyone happy, or want to say my mom.
People getting to relate their circumstances, happiness, surrow, protection, immotinal etc are enclosed in relationship. Blood relationship in Nepal is closest ever, in comperison to other relationship. They will fight for their child, wife, mother, father, sister, and occasionally friends. But when we are in another country, just alone of my family. In that condition, only classmates, teachers are in relationship. So, someone who is totaly depending upon family, is hard to live in foreign country. But still, being human, they will gradually adapted that condition.Some FAQ about relationship:
1) I 22/f feel like I'm putting my mother before husband and child and it's ruining my family:
So my momy is retired and doesn't work, however she receives disability and watches my daughter for 6 hours 5 days a week.
But I feel like she's killing my own homelife. Instead of being home with our child, I have to run my mom for her errands. And then she remembers that she forgot some insignificant item and wants me to come back. My so is getting frustrated and feels like I 'm putting her before us.
I feel guilty, because she's our baby sitter and everything, but at the same time I feel frustrated that she'll suddenly ask to go to the store and if I tell her I'm cleaning want to be at home, she always seems to get passive agressive. I just don't know how to make everyone happy, or want to say my mom.
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